Sexism? Only one of these photos was banned from a high school yearbook
A high-schooler in Wisconsin says her photo was deemed “inappropriate” for the yearbook because the bralette under her shirt could be seen.
And yet, she pointed out last week in a tweet that is causing a stir on social media, members of the boys swim team can pose shirtless in tiny swim trunks.
She thinks that’s sexist.
“Here’s my senior picture. because you can see my part of my brallette, it was “too inappropriate”. yet, here’s the boys swim team picture,” Eleanor Fitzwilliams, 17, wrote in a post that included side-by-side photos.
here's my senior picture. because you can see my part of my brallette, it was "too inappropriate". yet, here's the boys swim team picture. pic.twitter.com/hGg2G3ubO6
— eleanor (@elfitzwilliams) September 26, 2017
Fitzwilliams attends Verona Area High School in Verona, Wisc., where school administrators have not yet spoken publicly about the debate over gender equality her tweet has raised on social media.
Her original tweet has been retweeted more than 33,000 times, has been liked more than 174,000 times and has prompted more than 600 comments.
She clarified later that she has no beef with the swim team.
“My tweet wasn’t to call out the boys it’s about the school saying my pic wasn’t ok but they show way more skin and get their pic seen a lot more,” she tweeted.
my tweet wasnt to call out the boys its abt the school saying my pic wasnt ok but they show way more skin and get their pic seen a lot more
— eleanor (@elfitzwilliams) September 27, 2017
She told Yahoo Lifestyle she shared the photos just to vent, but now that so many people have weighed in she hopes it will “start a conversation in my school about sexualization and dress code.”
“So far I have a lot of support from my peers and adults in my life; everyone’s really proud of me for speaking up,” she told Yahoo. “The school is aware of the situation, and I’ve had a few conversations with faculty, but I still need to meet with the principal.”
She’s getting mostly support on Twitter, with a few exceptions like this comment: “An exposed bra is not a sports uniform. I understand how ridiculous and old school this is but it’s sort of apples and oranges here.”
An exposed bra is not a sports uniform. I understand how ridiculous and old school this is but it's sort of apples and oranges here...
— Minnesotatradingco01 (@minnesotatrade) September 27, 2017
Sports teams take team pics in their uniform. If a speedo is their uniform Idk what the problem is. I’m sure the girls were in swimsuits too
— Eli Whitehair (@svpremeli) September 28, 2017
Wait, so it was deemed inappropriate BECAUSE you had a covering for your breasts...? #SchoolLogic
— Kat (@DieHardFan15) September 26, 2017
No joke its probably the fact that your shoulders are showing because thats also very distracting according to dress code
— Darian Chunn (@BigCat_530) September 27, 2017
They are offended by the sinful whiteness of your undergarment. This version would be fine. pic.twitter.com/91kwav2S0S
— Steve Holmes (@StevenDHolmes) September 29, 2017
Here girl. I found you an outfit they'll be ok with. pic.twitter.com/0kvoZcndRT
— Quartz (@Courrrtneyyy42) September 27, 2017
Humiliation should never come from school officials. Schools shud cultivate the next generation, not knock them down. #SupportOurDaughters
— H J Frost (@HeidiNAlaska) September 29, 2017
James Walnut, a member of the boys’ swim team, said he wasn’t keen on being seen in that team photo in the yearbook.
“Given that I’m the extra hefty one in the center row of the pic I guarantee that it was the last thing I wanted too see in the yearbook too,” he tweeted.
Given that I'm the extra hefty one in the center row of the pic I guarantee that it was the last thing I wanted too see in the yearbook too
— James Walnut (@lord_potato16) September 27, 2017
One girl tweeted that she’s having a similar issue at her school, where she wrestles. She said the boy wrestlers were allowed to pose in their singlets, but she wasn’t.
“I wasn’t allowed to take my senior wrestling picture in my singlet like my teammates because I’m a girl ... stupid ...” the female wrestler tweeted.
I wasn't allowed to take my senior wrestling picture in my singlet like my teammates because I'm a girl ♀️stupid af. pic.twitter.com/lw0G6jeyYB
— Camri Lane (@aka_Spiderwoman) September 29, 2017
Last month in Joplin, Mo., a teacher reportedly called teenager Kelsey Anderson “busty” and “plus-sized” and kicked her out of class for wearing a blouse that “didn’t cover her cleavage properly.”
An attorney for the teen’s family said she was being bullied and had to shut down most of her social media accounts.
“I’ve had quite a few students and parents contact me that this may not be isolated and that female students have been treated differently at Joplin than males and that there is a pattern of discrimination,” Joplin lawyer Elizabeth Turner told The Star.
Other girls have been sharing their stories with Fitzwilliams.
“One of the most significant things about my post was that I found I wasn’t alone in this struggle because there were many girls who replied to my tweet citing similar incidents with their dress code and administration,” Fitzwilliams told Yahoo.
This story was originally published October 2, 2017 at 1:21 PM with the headline "Sexism? Only one of these photos was banned from a high school yearbook."