Q: Please remind your readers that it’s important to keep their dogs on a leash for their pets’ protection as well as the protection of those around them. In my community, leash laws are rarely enforced, and it’s common to see dogs running loose in city parks. The result is an increase in dogfights and unwelcome contact with people. Coyote attacks are also common here in the West, and small dogs are often the victims.
If other dog owners kept their dogs leashed, I wouldn’t have to worry about them bounding up to mine and the ensuing dogfight that follows when my dogs interpret that behavior as a threat. Remember, just because you think your dog is friendly, that doesn’t mean all the other dogs are. If people would just keep their dogs leashed, it would avert myriad problems for the dogs and their owners. — Marge in Phoenix
A: I’m glad you wrote. Unless dog owners are in an area where it is designated their animals can run loose, such as an off-leash dog park, their pets should be leashed for their own safety as well as that of others. Off-leash dog parks (and beaches) provide a place for pets to exercise and socialize while also encouraging compliance with leash and “scoop” laws.
Pet owners must remember that coyotes are intelligent and highly adaptable. While they mostly do their hunting at night, they have also been known to “grab a snack” during the day if they happen to be hungry, to the dismay of owners of small pets. And when I say “grab,” I’m being literal. It has happened in an instant in front of the owner.
Q: I’m moving in a few weeks and have asked my girlfriend of two years to move in with me. She’s considering it, but I suspect she’s unsure about it because I am pretty messy at times — underwear tossed on the floor, plates piling up in the kitchen every other day, etc.
I know if I could get my act together she would happily move in, which is something I really want. Can you please give me some tips on becoming better at cleaning? I would hate for her to move in and feel like my maid, or worse, not move in at all. — Ready to Cohabit
A: Your problem may be less that you’re messy than that you’re a procrastinator. These are some basics: Buy a large wicker basket and keep it in a corner of your bedroom or closet. When the underwear and socks come off, toss them into the basket instead of on the floor. When you remove your pants and shirt, instead of throwing them over a chair, hang them up.
After you’re finished eating, either put your plate, silverware, etc., into the dishwasher, or hand-wash them immediately and put them where they belong. Try it for a week, and you’ll be amazed at how tidy your place will be.
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