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July 30, 2014 7:00 AM

Dear Abby: Obsession with six-pack abs puts swimmer in unsafe water

Physical perfection is no guarantee that you’ll find love. Liking yourself and accepting yourself for who you are is what attracts others. Although “looking like a movie star” can be an asset — depending upon who the movie star is — unless you are secure about who you are and what you have to offer, you can’t maintain a healthy relationship.

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