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July 1, 2014 7:00 AM

Dear Abby: Husband calls his affairs ‘safe and harmless escapades’

DEAR ABBY: I just found out that my husband of 30 years is having an affair. When I confronted him, he said: “I have a girlfriend. I can’t imagine the rest of my life without girlfriends, so get over it!” Then he told me that he has never been faithful, but that he loves me and would be devastated if I left. He considers his fooling around to be “safe and harmless escapades.”

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