‘Friend’ undercuts family over beach condo
05/04/2014 1:00 PM
05/04/2014 7:28 PM
I was floored. I think a more appropriate approach would have been for him to have called me first and expressed his interest in renting it, but he should not have rented the unit if it conflicted with our vacation plans. I understand the free marketplace — first-come, first-served — but I can’t help feeling he undercut me. — Confused in a Tent at the Beach
Your feeling is 100 percent accurate. That weasel DID undercut you, and real friends don’t act that way. Now that you know what he’s capable of, contact the landlord and make a long-term deal in advance if you want that unit in the future.Woman, 83, in need of a man
DEAR ABBY: I am a lonely 83-year-old woman. All I want is someone to love me, preferably a handsome, wealthy man who will spoil me. I have spent my entire life making other people happy, and now all I want is some happiness back. I mean, can’t an older woman get some loving, too?
I have been told I’m charming. I have the laugh of an angel, a full head of blond/gray hair and a slim figure. I would like a man (preferably in his elderly years) who is lonely and needs some company. And also someone who wants to spend his savings on me. Abby, help me find my soul mate. — Waiting for “got-Dough”
Why do I suspect this letter may have been written by a group of sorority sisters after a few drinks? However, just in case it’s actually on the level, your “want ad” has now been viewed by millions of Dear Abby readers worldwide, and I’m sure we will hear from many applicants who are eager to be “The One.” Let’s hope none of them write from “Scam-dinavia.”No shower, no problem
DEAR ABBY: My daughter-in-law is having a baby. My mother and I told her we would have a shower for her. She registered at a local store for baby gifts, let us start planning the shower, and then informed us that she would not be opening gifts at the party. My son has sided with her. He said he didn’t know her reason, but felt like it was no big deal.
Why would she act that way? We think it’s peculiar. The shower has now been canceled at her request. — Mystified in California
Your daughter-in-law may have been trying to be considerate of any guests, possibly members of her family, whose gifts might not have been as expensive as those purchased or crafted by other guests. Or she may have felt self-conscious about being the center of attention.
While I agree that one of the pleasures of attending a shower is seeing the expression of joy on the mother-to-be’s face as the presents are unwrapped, look at it this way: Because the shower is canceled, your problem is solved. Now forget about it.
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