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In 1995, Patrick Dobson did something a lot of people have only dreamed about: He put his life on hold and tried to find himself.
He was unmarried, with a daughter. His job made him unhappy.
He thought about his father who had grown frustrated and angry working a tedious job. Dobson didn’t want to look back one day and wonder, “Why didn’t I do something to change my life?”
As a boy, he had fallen in love with the plains and prairies his family’s station wagon sped through on the way to Colorado. Once a year, his dad had seemed happy on those trips to the mountains.
Then it came to him. A truly radical plan.
“Helena, Montana,” he said out loud.
By his estimation, Helena was the farthest, largest city on the other end of the Great Plains.
He decided to embark on a quest. He would walk from Kansas City to Montana, and since the Missouri River flowed nearby, canoe home.
Dobson spent more than a decade writing and rewriting the story of this journey and finding a publisher. The result, a memoir/travelogue called “Seldom Seen” (University of Nebraska Press), is out this month.
Today, Dobson is a union ironworker and doctoral student. The 3-year-old daughter he phoned on his trip is now 18. He and his wife of 11 years, an oncology nurse, adopted their 7-year-old son a few years ago.
Q: What was your life like when this journey came to you?
A: I seemed to be always coming home from work and getting ready to go to work at what was then the Ritz-Carlton, where I refinished furniture and worked in the engineering department.
One day in spring 1994, I was painting the floor of the engineering shop and painted myself, literally, into the center of the room. I realized my life and possibilities were as gray as the paint I was rolling on the floor.
Something inside me broke. I was scared to change anything but more frightened not to. I worked all I could for the next year to save the money for bills, child support and rent — so I’d have a home to come back to — for the five months I thought the trip would take.
Is this a book about work?
It is. Work is a theme common to all of us. The story begins with work and is an exploration of how people deal with the drudgery and/or contentment their work presents them. In a sense, I start looking for a way to fit in and, instead, find a way to be happy with my own restless spirit.
“Seldom Seen” is also about taking risks and about letting the future and the past stay in the future and the past.
You meet so many people along the way. The way you tell it, they readily offered you rides, a place to stay, meals, company. Is that really how it happened?
I don’t want people to think it was all tripping along in the sunshine. One must be cautious. In the book, the times I get myself into trouble happen when I don’t trust my instincts. Those cautionary tales are part of the story.
Without exception, the people who offered to show me their towns, put me up and feed me had little or nothing to give. I don’t know if generosity and lack of material security are connected, but my experience tells me they are closely related.
How were you able to get all the details and the conversations right? You must have taken a lot of notes.
I kept a journal. I wrote every day for at least a half-hour. I explored my essential self there. I wrote down as much as I could remember. I kept detailed notes on the landscape, the geology and topography, plants and animals. Still, the conversations and settings in the book are reconstructions. I didn’t get everything verbatim and could not put everything in the book.
To reach Lajean Keene, call 816-234-4862 or send e-mail to lkeene@kcstar.com.
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