Vapor from e-cigarettes won’t hurt you

DEAR ABBY: I work in a small office with two former heavy smokers who have now transitioned to vapor/e-cigarettes. My concern is that they “smoke” their e-cigarettes in the office constantly, and I don’t know what chemicals I am now breathing secondhand.

Parents need to see maturity

DEAR ABBY: I am a 13-year-old girl and my parents won’t let me date. I believe I am mature for my age and won’t do anything foolish. I don’t know why my parents are being like this. Please give me some advice on how to persuade them. — Really Ready in New Hampshire

Wife stuck in a dull life wants to relive lost years

DEAR ABBY: “Jake” and I have been married more than 20 years. I married before I was 18, and I’m not even 40 yet. Jake is seven years my senior. We have had our ups and downs, and although the last five years have been fine, I want more out of life than sitting home watching TV or hanging out with him.

Host believes dinner guests need only one drink: water

DEAR MISS MANNERS: What is my obligation to provide a selection of beverages at a dinner party? I was brought up to think that a glass of water should be provided at each place. My husband thinks that we are supposed to provide a choice of other options such as iced tea or juice.

The transition from military to civilian life can be a struggle

DEAR BILLY GRAHAM: I just retired from the military after 20 years (including tours of duty in Iraq and Afghanistan), but now that I’m out I can’t find a job. No one seems to appreciate the skills I learned as a soldier. I don’t know why I’m writing, but maybe you could pray that I won’t give up. — F.R.

For some, health threats are everywhere

DEAR MISS MANNERS: Which is proper? To pick up the glass off the table and refill it, or leave it on the table and pour? I have always felt it to be unsanitary for a server who is clearing plates to touch someone’s glass without having washed their hands since clearing other guests’ dishes.

Dig up the roots of rudeness

DEAR ABBY: I have been married for 18 years to a man I have a good relationship with. My problem is, he has always been extremely rude to my parents. They aren’t critical or judgmental of him, and they try hard to be friendly and accommodating, perhaps thinking it might lessen the rudeness he continually shows them.

Prying questions get a glib answer

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I’m a 27-year-old female, and I have difficulty meeting men (I rarely get to go out to bars or clubs, as most of my friends have children). On the rare occasion I do meet someone, something always goes wrong, and that gets me down.

Confessionis the first step toward forgiveness

DEAR BILLY GRAHAM: Years ago my cousin and I had a dispute over some property we inherited, and we never got over it. He died recently, and now I feel terrible because I never tried to patch up our relationship. I know I was partly to blame, but can God still forgive me? — A.T.

Let teen ask his dad to events

DEAR ABBY: My 14-year-old son, “Nils,” recently joined a sport he really enjoys. His stepdad and I are at every practice, helping the coaches and coaching my son along. Nils recently commented to me that he would like it if his father could come and see him practice. I took it upon myself, as I usually do, to call my ex, “John,” and suggest he make an appearance because it would make our son happy.

God is with us through Holy Spirit

DEAR BILLY GRAHAM: I’m confused about the Holy Spirit. How do you get it? What is the Holy Spirit anyway? A friend of mine is always talking about it, but I guess I don’t really understand what he’s saying. — G.S.

Teen missing best friend who moved

DEAR ABBY: I am a 16-year-old girl from Serbia. I have been in the U.S. for two years and I’m studying English in an ESL (English as a Second Language) class. I read your column and could use some help to solve my problem because I am very upset.

Don’t live in fear of disasters, but put your trust in God

DEAR BILLY GRAHAM: I’ve heard a lot lately about the possibility that some day the Earth (or at least human life) will be destroyed by a large meteor or asteroid. This worries me, because apparently it’s happened before and we don’t have any way to prevent it. Is this how the world is going to end, according to the Bible? — J.J.

Husband blames himself for wife’s three affairs

DEAR ABBY: I am a 47-year-old male, married for 26 years. I am hopelessly in love with my wife and still see her as the most beautiful woman in the world. I have always been self-employed and have sometimes been at the extremes of feast or famine. During the bad times, I often worked 110-plus-hour weeks to save the ship.

Don’t let bad examples keep you childless

DEAR ABBY: My husband and I are contemplating starting a family. When I was younger I wanted children, but over the years my personal experiences have caused trepidation. Because of divorce and the custody battles of my older siblings, I know the amount of blood, sweat and tears that go into children.

Focus on Christ’s truth, not your doubts

DEAR BILLY GRAHAM: I want to believe in God and I’m trying to, but every time I think I’m about to get there I become filled with doubts and I’m right back where I started. How can I overcome my doubts? — K.G.