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  • FYI / Living > Star Magazine > MARY CAROL GARRITY

    MARY CAROL GARRITY  

    Posted on Sat, May. 10, 2008 10:15 PM

    Simple gifts to keep on hand

    
Welcome a new neighbor or surprise an old friend with a small but thoughtful gift for her home. Some of Garrity’s  favorite gifts are little treasures like bud vases, coasters and interesting boxes.
    Welcome a new neighbor or surprise an old friend with a small but thoughtful gift for her home. Some of Garrity’s favorite gifts are little treasures like bud vases, coasters and interesting boxes.

    E very time I drive past my neighbor’s house, I feel a pang of guilt.

    Back when the moving van pulled up, I was brimming with good intentions, eager to select just the right little gift that would tell them how happy we were to have them in the neighborhood.

    A few weeks went by, then a few months and before I knew it, so much time had lapsed that the new neighbors had become old-timers.

    Now their house serves as a powerful reminder for me to never miss a moment when I can surprise someone with a special gift. To keep my new resolution, I’m going to plan ahead and keep some gifts on hand I can pull out in a pinch.

    If you want to do the same, here are some simple and inexpensive no-fail presents you can use as hostess, housewarming or thank-you gifts.

    Petite bouquets in beautiful dishes

    I know I’m a dish-aholic — I think dishes are the answer to all of life’s biggest questions. But seriously, a beautiful silver creamer, glass bud vase or ceramic pitcher filled with a sweet bouquet of fresh flowers makes the perfect housewarming gift.

    I was wild about a simple gift I received from a friend: a gilded antique wine glass cradling a solitary rose bud, the stem cut so low that the bloom almost floated.

    I was so crazy about this look that I’ve copied it hundreds of times. Whenever I have company, I pull out that wine glass, dress it with a tightly pruned rose and use it to brighten my powder room.

    Next time you’re browsing through a home-decor shop, an antique mall or a flea market, be on the prowl for perfect little pieces you can use as vases.

    How about a sugar dish that has lost its lid, an unusual vase or a small gravy boat? Don’t worry if you don’t have a clue about the recipient’s tastes, because these happy bouquets look perfect in anyone’s home, whether perched on a windowsill, standing atop a stack of books on a desk or showcased on a bed stand.

    A journal

    I love the possibilities presented in a gorgeous blank book, with page after snowy page just waiting to be filled.

    How about giving your new neighbor or friend a journal she can fill with family memories, an account of her latest travels, a sketch of her new garden design, decorating projects she wants to tackle, addresses or personal thoughts. The sky’s the limit!

    Tasty treats

    There’s nothing like taking new neighbors a home-cooked meal or yummy goodies on their first night in their new house, when their dishes and cooking supplies are still packed away.

    Since I can’t cook worth a lick, I’ve had to come up with variations on this home-cooked theme, opting instead for carryout delicacies from a local restaurant.

    If you don’t want to do dinner, how about filling an inexpensive ice bucket with ice, fresh strawberries and a bottle of sparkling wine?

    Or pick out a unique wooden box and stock it full of candy from a local shop.

    Find a cute picnic basket and fill it with scones, jam and coffee for breakfast, or artisan bread, imported cheese and salami for lunch.

    Survival bucket

    How about putting together a treasure chest of little gifts to surprise your new neighbors or friends? How about a galvanized pail packed full of home fix-it fare, like a picture-hanging kit, a hammer, an extension cord, wood glue and a tape measure?

    If your new neighbors have young kids, put together a playful plastic pail filled with activities that will keep the little guys busy while Mom and Dad unpack, such as a coloring book and crayons, bubbles, sidewalk chalk and a jump rope.

    If your neighbors are new to the area, fill a basket with brochures and cards from your favorite restaurants, shops, historical sites and parks, then add a city map they can use as they explore.

    Micki Chestnut of Lawrence writes this column in consultation with Mary Carol Garrity. Write Garrity at 501 Commercial St., Atchison, Kan. 66002. Or send e-mail to marycarol@nellhills.com. United Feature Synd

     

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