Americas capacity for optimism and hope has been boundless through much of our short history.
By KATHLEEN PARKER
The Washington Post
The tangible returns of hard work; the ordered liberty sustained through community consent; and opportunity honed over time to apply equally to all men and women these were the currency of what we called the American Dream.
Essential to these achievements was courage. The Founding Fathers were above all courageous as they challenged a king, fought and died for freedom, and created a country from scratch with little more than mettle and intellectual vigor.
If this isnt exceptional, then we have lost the meaning of words.
As we begin yet another new year, it is less easy to summon the dream. Instead of hope, a word that brought us a new president, we have entered an era of envy and doubt envy for those who have more, and doubt that we can ever dig ourselves out of debilitating debt. What happens when even our debtors no longer want our dollars anymore, as China declared?
Depending on whose prognostications one believes, we are either rebounding, by dribs and drabs, or perched on the precipice of economic ruin. Lets figure were somewhere in between, which falls short of inspiring.
Do weak economies and moral decay go hand in hand? We seem poised to find out.
From Miley Cyrus naked cavorting on a wrecking ball well, one can at least admire her metaphoric succulence to Anthony Weiners Twitter projections of His Very Own Self, we have lost all sense of decorum, that voluntary commitment to behavior that combines a willingness to consider others first (at minimum keeping our clothes on), enforced through the exercise of self-restraint. How do we expect children to navigate through this tawdry muck to become the sort of people most of us would like to know?
Part of the problem is our sense of helplessness before the overwhelming power of technology, which has erased the physical boundaries of community. With so many liberated ids running around, its hard to find a safe place to grow children. Figure it out we must. Why arent irresponsible parenting and behavior as abhorrent to society as, say, smoking?
I suppose what Im lamenting is the loss of our national imperative to do and be better. Where once we fashioned ourselves according to best behaviors, we now accommodate ourselves to the least.
So, yep, were a mess, but, in the spirit of American optimism, not doomed. To preserve the dream, two resolutions come to mind: Denounce envy and resurrect the community standard.
Envy is the core emotion driving the current debate about income inequality and the notion that the poor are poor because the rich are rich. Nonsense. The economy is not, in fact, a pie. When one gets a bigger slice, others do not ipso facto get a smaller one. Instead of redistributing wealth to spread misery around, the goal should be to make the poor richer, which means jobs, education and tax/regulation relief for employers.
Fundamental to all else is allegiance to community standards the tacit agreement among adults that our communities be as physically secure and psychologically safe as possible for the well-being of children. For guidance, the correct answer to nearly any question is another question: What is best for children?
Perhaps I am naive, but cynicism isnt allowed today. Our lack of attention to our goodness, combined with our craving for instant gratification and near-toxic stimulation, has led us far afield from our Founders intentions. Dont worry, my angel wings are in sorry shape.
We may have been created with a universal yearning for freedom, but we have learned through experience that freedom is earned rather than bestowed. To keep it, one must be vigilant.
All it takes is courage.
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