DEAR BILLY GRAHAM: I know Jesus said were supposed to forgive people whove hurt us, but why bother? As far as I can tell, it doesnt really change them. P.L.
By BILLY GRAHAM
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No, it may not change them, but it will change you. You see, an unforgiving spirit produces all kinds of negative emotions in us anger, bitterness, depression, jealousy, hate, and so forth. Any of those easily becomes a spiritual and emotional poison, eating away at our souls and turning us into unloving (and unlovable) people.
How can you forgive someone who has hurt you? You may think its impossible but with Gods help you can. The key is first to accept Gods forgiveness, by receiving the free gift of salvation he offers you in Jesus Christ. We dont deserve Gods forgiveness, but on the cross all of our sins were placed in Christ, and he took the judgment we deserve. Have you turned to him for the forgiveness you need?
Then forgive others the same way Christ has forgiven you freely and fully. Not only will God release you from an unforgiving spirit, but he even may use you to change the life of the person youve forgiven.
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