BILLY GRAHAM

With God’s help, you can forgive those who’ve hurt you

Updated: 2013-12-01T01:10:48Z

By BILLY GRAHAM

Tribune Media Services

DEAR BILLY GRAHAM: I know Jesus said we’re supposed to forgive people who’ve hurt us, but why bother? As far as I can tell, it doesn’t really change them.— P.L.

DEAR P.L.:

No, it may not change them, but it will change you. You see, an unforgiving spirit produces all kinds of negative emotions in us — anger, bitterness, depression, jealousy, hate, and so forth. Any of those easily becomes a spiritual and emotional poison, eating away at our souls and turning us into unloving (and unlovable) people.

How can you forgive someone who has hurt you? You may think it’s impossible — but with God’s help you can. The key is first to accept God’s forgiveness, by receiving the free gift of salvation he offers you in Jesus Christ. We don’t deserve God’s forgiveness, but on the cross all of our sins were placed in Christ, and he took the judgment we deserve. Have you turned to him for the forgiveness you need?

Then forgive others the same way Christ has forgiven you — freely and fully. Not only will God release you from an unforgiving spirit, but he even may use you to change the life of the person you’ve forgiven.

© Tribune Media Services 11/29

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