MARY SANCHEZ

A good woman in Georgia prevents a massacre

Updated: 2013-08-27T22:39:31Z

By MARY SANCHEZ

The Kansas City Star

Welcome back to school, America!

Summer was but a brief break from the kind of news story that has become all too normal. An elementary school in Georgia, Ronald E. McNair Discovery Learning Academy, was the latest to be visited by a mentally ill man armed with a weapon and enough ammunition to slaughter little children and their teachers.

This time there were no injuries. And it’s for a different reason than many gun rights advocates would have us expect. A school clerk with a heart — not a good guy with a gun — did the work.

Antoinette Tuff’s role in thwarting the gunman is significant. She embodies the wisdom that not every threat of violence needs to be met with more violence.

Tuff calmly coaxed 20-year-old Michael Brandon Hill to admit he was mentally ill, to accept that he needed help and to put down his weapons and give himself up to police.

It took her nearly half an hour, relaying the comments of Hill to police through dispatchers. “We’re not going to hate you, baby,” she can be heard saying on the 911 tape. “You’re giving yourself up.”

She empathized with him, telling Hill that she’d been despondent and suicidal once, too, after a divorce. “It’s going to be all right, sweetheart,” she told the young man. “I just want you to know I love you though, OK? And I’m proud of you.”

Tuff is brave — far more impressive than the Rambo-mentality folks who think they can shoot their way out of similar situations after a few practice rounds at the local firing range. But what made all the difference was her emotional intelligence, which was nothing short of genius. School personnel could learn a lot by studying how this bookkeeper rose to the situation.

That’s not to say that all gunmen can all be talked out of committing mass murder. Clearly, it could have ended very differently. Hill had nearly 500 rounds of ammunition, an AK-47-style rifle and a desire to die.

And he did shoot. Into the air and outside at police officers surrounding the property.

Tuff wasn’t just relying on her own wits. She had been trained. The school had protocols in place that she followed. She alerted other staff, which sent the message to teachers to lock doors and get the children to safety.

We need more people like Tuff to intervene with troubled people like Hill — but long before they might pick up a weapon. I’m including people in the pro-gun camp here, too. What responsible gun owner would willingly put a weapon in the hands of a mentally ill friend or acquaintance?

And yet the gun lobby fights tooth and nail against any effort to make background checks mandatory in private gun sales and sales at gun shows. Gun sellers need to take responsibility for making sure they don’t put weapons in the hands of dangerous people — and if that requires legal liability, so be it.

Hill reportedly got the gun from someone he knew. How’d he acquire the ammunition? He’d pleaded guilty in July for threats against his brother.

Are armed guards in schools a bad idea? Not necessarily. No one is arguing against off-duty or retired police in schools. School resource officers have long played a significant role in keeping schools safe.

But arming more adults in our schools is not the only solution. In fact, it’s far from the best one. Ask the insurance industry.

They don’t want to pay out for the liability lawsuits that would surely follow.

As for Hill, he is lucky. He will likely be convicted and sentenced for what he’s done, but he’s not dead. He didn’t harm anyone. And that means he can receive treatment and get back on medication.

Maybe he’ll even meet Tuff again someday. She saved not only her own life and those of countless children, staff members and maybe even police. She saved Hill’s life as well.

There are many ways to be a hero. The best is to save these troubled souls from doing harm.

To reach Mary Sanchez, call 816-234-4752 or send email to msanchez@kcstar.com.

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