DEAR MISS MANNERS: My sister has been dating a guy for about four months, and I just found out she is eight weeks pregnant. She is 32 years old, which should mean she is an adult and can make her own decisions, but they instantly jumped into a serious relationship.
By JUDITH MARTIN
He has a 4-year-old son who she met less than a month after they began dating, and now the boyfriend and his son stay with her almost all of the time. My parents basically support her they make her car payment and pay her school loans.
So I think this is not the best thing to happen. When I express my concern about anything, she becomes angry and defensive right away. So how do I talk to her about this?
GENTLE READER: Just what is the wise counsel that you are offering your sister and she is perversely rejecting?
That people who are expecting a baby have no business entering a serious relationship? That allowing the prospective father to stay at your sisters house will ruin her reputation? That instead of helping her, your parents should be locking her in her room so she doesnt get into trouble?
Naive Miss Manners would have thought that a relationship that produced a pregnancy was already a wee bit serious. But if not, it strikes her as a good time to begin. And apparently they have. Please dont try to put a damper on this.
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