JENEÉ OSTERHELDT

Go online to click the blues away

Updated: 2013-03-11T22:33:35Z

By JENEÉ OSTERHELDT

The Kansas City Star

Bad news haunts the headlines.

A rapist on the loose in the Northland. Five people shot at a teen party in Kansas City. A 4-year-old boy accidentally shot in the head at his Wichita home. That’s just this week.

The sadness is suffocating. These are just a few of the stories in the paper, on our feeds and timelines and TVs. Sometimes it’s hard to believe in good when we’re constantly reminded of the darkness.

But then you see something like Grumpy Cat, the kitty who is stealing the show at South by Southwest Interactive Festival this year. People lined up just to meet her and snap pictures in Austin over the weekend. The 11-month-old kitty has been an Internet sensation since September. Her site has 1.5 million visitors a month. But why?

She makes us smile. And happiness is something we’re thirsty for.

It’s why seemingly common moments, like a napping cat, often go viral. Last week, an image of Charles Ziegler, a North Carolina cop, caused a Web frenzy. He wasn’t naked. He wasn’t doing anything wild. It was raining. He saw a mom pushing her child in a stroller. He offered them a ride. Someone impressed with his random act of kindness took a picture and posted it to Twitter, and it made the rounds on Facebook, too. Before long, the story was on Today.com.

It’s no different from last month’s big feel-good story on the Country Club Plaza. Sarah Darling gave spare change to Billy Ray Harris and accidentally dropped her engagement ring in his can. The next day she found him on the Plaza and he returned her ring. The story made national news. Darling and her husband set up a fundraiser to help Harris. He’s an Internet hero, and people have donated to the tune of $180,000 and counting.

Harris told KCTV-5 he likes the attention but doesn’t feel he deserves it for simply doing the right thing.

“What I actually feel like is what has the world come to when a person who returns something that doesn’t belong to him and all this happens?”

Well, the world is sad, Billy Ray. We’re living in times where 15-year-old Malala Yousafzai was shot in the head for speaking out about girls getting an education in Pakistan. The Sandy Hook shooter was in competition with the Norway massacre. And in Kansas City, murders and violence are becoming weekly occurrences. In January, we saw seven murders in three days.

With that kind of reality, even the most fortunate of us can struggle with grace and our own humanity. So to see someone like Billy Ray, homeless and forgotten, filled with so much good? We crave that light. Maybe one day we’ll live in a world where random acts of kindness are so common there’s no need for news reporters to show up. I hope for that.

But for now, in our media-driven lifestyle, the blues are something we escape from.

We don’t want to be sad. As another Web star, Sweet Brown, would say, “Ain’t nobody got time for that.” So what do we do? We “Harlem Shake” ourselves into happiness. And that’s all right.

Jeneé Osterheldt’s column runs on Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday. To reach her, call 816-234-4380 or send email to josterheldt@kcstar.com. “Like” her page on Facebook and never miss a column. You also can follow her at Twitter.com/jeneeinkc.

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