DEAR BILLY GRAHAM: We attended a wedding recently, during which the preacher read something from the Bible about the need for charity. What does charity have to do with marriage? I guess I didnt understand. M.T.
By BILLY GRAHAM
Tribune Media Services
DEAR M.T.: The pastor was probably reading from the 13th chapter of the book of First Corinthians, which includes one of the greatest passages on the meaning of love. Its often read at weddings because it is both profound and practical. (You can read it for yourself in 1 Corinthians 13:4-13.)
Apparently, however, he was reading from an older translation of the Bible that uses an old English word, charity, instead of its modern equivalent, love. Over the centuries, some words can change their meaning, and thats the case here with charity. If you read from an old translation (e.g., the King James Version), simply substitute the word love for the word charity and youll understand.
Within those few verses, the Bible lists some 15 characteristics of true love (far more than I can list here). Some of them are positive that is, they tell us what love does (e.g., its always patient and kind). Others are negative that is, they tell us what love does not do (e.g., its never rude or self-seeking). How different our marriages (and our lives) would be if we put them into action! And we can, with Gods help.
Our understanding of love doesnt just come from a list, however. It comes most of all from Jesus Christ, who showed us the meaning of Gods love by dying on the cross for us. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins (1 John 4:10).
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